The year was 1989,
and it was a year of great change for our family. My mother
and father were divorcing after 30 years of marriage, and my
sister and I decided that our mom needed another outlet for
the affection she had lavished on our dad for all those years.
Enter Whitley, a small ball of white Maltese fluff we
purchased from a puppymill. Despite Whitley’s obvious faults,
she was just what the doctor ordered, and very quickly wormed
her way into my mom’s heart – a heart that had never been open
to loving a dog, particularly one that lived in the
house! It wasn’t long before mom talked me into purchasing a
Maltese puppy for myself. By then, we had learned our lesson –
stay away, FAR away from puppymill dogs. So, with Whitley in
tow, on Memorial Day 1989, mom and I went to the dog show in
Shawnee, Oklahoma. We thought our lives had been changed two
years prior. We had no idea the effect that meeting our good
friend, Tammy Simon (Ta-Jon Maltese), would have on our lives.
We purchased a little girl from Tammy, and Abbey (Ta-Jon’s
Moonlight Abbey) very quickly wormed her way into my mom’s
heart. That’s right. My puppy was really my mom’s
puppy, but that was OK with me since mom was smiling once
again. Our smiles turned to tears in 1991 when Abbey became
ill and was diagnosed with vonWillebrand’s disease as well as
autoimmune hemolytic anemia. Abbey had just had her shots and
been spayed, and her little system could not take it. She
crossed Rainbow Bridge within two months of her diagnosis.
Tammy entrusted us with yet another puppy, and we named him
Samson, our little giant. Samson was one wiggly energetic ball
of fur, and Whitley hated him! His life ended tragically at
just four months of age when he wriggled from my arms and fell
onto the kitchen floor, breaking his neck. It was almost more
than we could take, but once again, I
called
Tammy. And once again, she told me to come and look at
Samson’s mother, who was available for adoption. It wasn’t
long before I brought that baby girl (Ch. Barbarella’s Boo
Berry Muffin) aka Boo, Boo Berry and Merry Muffins, home with
me. I finally had MY Maltese. For 11 years this angel blessed
my life. She crossed Rainbow Bridge on Dec. 18, 2004.
I
added another retiree to my home in 2000 – a girl who would
change my life forever – Ch. Ta-Jon’s Kay Sara Sara (Kate). I
have often said that Kate is my "dream dog." She is certainly
every breeder and handler’s dream. A beautiful topline, a
to-die-for coat, and attitude deluxe made her a wonderful show
dog, and a wonderful teaching tool for someone who decided
late in life that she needed to learn what this dog show
business was all about. Or was it Tammy who decided this?
Desperate for help at a dog show, she asked me to take a dog
back in the ring. I can still remember her exact words. "Don’t
worry about it. Just pretend you’re taking Merry Muffins for a
walk!" OK, I could handle that. Only one problem. I walked Boo
on my right side. I couldn’t figure out why the girl I had
taken back into the ring wouldn’t budge for me. It wasn’t
until the last walk around the ring and Tammy pointing and
saying "Other side, other side!" that I figured it out. Dogs
are shown on the left – the judge’s side. It was this single
incident that convinced me to start conformation classes so
that I would never again be embarrassed by not really knowing
what to do. Well, who better than to teach an old dog new
tricks than an old dog that had been there-done that? My Kate
seemed the obvious choice. It didn’t seem to matter that she
was now almost 7 years old and hadn’t been in the ring herself
in more than six years! Kate and I began learning (and
re-learning) together, and it certainly was a wild ride. After
a few months of conformation classes in Oklahoma City, I
entered Kate in a match. We left the building that day with a
Best in Match trophy. When I called Tammy to tell her the
news, her comment was "Oh, no, you’ve been bitten by the show
bug!" I certainly had been. I began traveling with Tammy to
watch and learn. How blessed I am to not only have a wonderful
breeder as a friend, but now she also was my mentor. Within
two months, I entered Kate, who was now 7, in a REAL show in
Lawrence, Kansas. We left that show with a Best of Breed
ribbon. Kate’s winning, despite me being her groomer and
handler, continued over the next few months, and our first
year in the ring together, Kate had enough breed points to
qualify her for the Eukanuba Invitational, ranked as the #17
Maltese. No mom could ever be prouder of her child than I am
of my Kate. At the age of 9, Kate officially retired for the
second time. At the age of 11, she continues to be my best bed
buddy and dog show travel companion.
The death of my
grandfather in 1999 meant that his loving companion (and
previously my grandmother’s cherished companion before her
death three years prior) named Chelsey would also become a
member of our family. Chelsey is a sweet old girl now, and
still likes it when we call her "my little pal," my
grandfather’s term of endearment for her.
And
along came Bitsy (Ta-Jon’s Little Bit of Heaven) after she
retired from motherhood and went to live (overnight) with a
neighbor. She didn’t last long because Bitsy had already
determined that my mom was HER mom, too. She got her way, and
she has been mom’s "angel" and "sweetheart, sweetheart" ever
since. After a few brief runs around the ring with me, Bitsy
decided that showing was NOT for her – she would much rather
be on mom’s lap at home, so she is now spayed and officially
retired from everything except giving lots of sweet kisses.
Not
long after I retired Kate, I obtained Henry (Ch. Ta-Jon’s Oh
Henry). Henry was given to my niece, Casey Miller of Kansas,
to show in junior showmanship and conformation. Casey, her
sister, Jordan (who owns and showed in juniors Kate’s son,
Clue – Ch. Ta-Jon’s Without A Doubt), and brother, Samuel,
raised Henry to be a wonderful, loving outgoing little dog. I
brought Henry home with me in March 2002 to begin growing his
somewhat damaged, somewhat cutoff hair. Busy social/family
life did not agree with Henry’s fragile coat! But, within
months, Henry was in the ring working his way toward his
championship. He earned back-to-back four point majors his
second weekend out with me (Kansas City). His next two points
came the following weekend in Oklahoma City, and another
four-point major followed in Amarillo, Texas, in December. He
completed his last single in Wichita Falls, Texas, in
February. Less than one year after I brought Henry to live
with me, I had my first owner-handled champion. Henry returned
to live with my niece in Kansas in order for me to pursue my
next champion.
I
was blessed with two boys – Dude (Ta-Jon’s California Raisin)
and Solo (Ta-Jon’s Oh Solo Mio) in May. I raised, trained and
grew coat on both boys, and put Dude’s first two points on him
– going Winner’s Dog, Best of Winners and Best of Breed in
Duncan, Oklahoma. Dude went to live with Debbie Cleckley
(Jacob’s Maltese) in October of this year, and with Debbie,
Dude is working his way toward his championship.
Solo
went to an obedience/agility home in March, and we added our
newest boy, Moonshine, to our home in April 2005. Look for
him in the ring in the summer 2005 and at Maltese nationals
in Overland Park, Kansas, in September! Thank you, Tammy,
John, and Peter for this wonderful boy.
Although my dogs are
a large part of my life, my "real" job is in higher education.
A former English/journalism teacher, I currently serve as
director of communications for the Michael F. Price College of
Business at the University of Oklahoma, where among my many
duties, I am editor of our college’s magazine. My mom,
Marilyn, a loving mother and homemaker of many years,
currently is secretary to the dean of the College of Fine Arts
at Oklahoma Baptist University in Shawnee. She will retire in
July of this year. And knowing mom, she will find a part-time
job somewhere!
Thanks for taking the time to learn all about us. Maybe we
will get a chance to meet up at a show some day.
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-- Sharon & Marilyn Bourbeau
Sha-li-Mar Maltese Grooming and Showing |
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